After
being announced the “Lovin’ Compassion Award” Southern Regional winner, my
local newspaper did a brief story on me. Being a 15 year old girl, I was
thrilled. Until I got online. The article, which had been posted on the
newspaper’s website, had over 75 comments. Again, I was thrilled! Until I read
the comments. There was a battle going
on in these comments. The supporters sticking up for me, fighting for me, were
being overthrown. Over half of the comments posted on the article were
negative; criticizing not only the movement of Ban the R word, but also myself
and my upbringing. Being a 15 year old girl, I was heartbroken.
I had
to take a step back to realize what was truly happening. I had always been
questioned for my support of Ban the R word, but never had I been directly
ridiculed for my beliefs and my involvement. The article’s comments were harsh, rude, and, in my opinion, absurd. But they were also just
a small taste. The comments were just a
small taste of what is to come in my future involvement with the campaign. The
comments were just a small taste of the harsh treatment that people with
intellectual disabilities have received in the past, and sadly, continue to
receive. The comments promoting the campaign were just a small taste of the
love and support I have received and hope to receive in the future.
Through
all the put-downs I have never once regretted my involvement with Special
Olympics and Ban the R word. People have always told me, “Stand up for what you
believe” and Gandhi said, “Be the change you wish to see in the world”. This experience has taught me that if every
person respected and agreed with what I had to say, I wouldn’t be doing my job.
I wouldn’t be doing what my parents, and my world taught me to do. By winning
this Lovin’ Scoopful award, I was given, not only a small taste of the real
world, but a small taste of some pretty good ice cream!
The above post is submitted by Lovin' Compassion Award Winner Katie Pullano. Katie is a kind hearted beautiful young lady and it saddens us that someone as giving as Katie would endure criticism.